Several phone callers to the Jewish News have complained that the media coverage might betray an anti-Semitic bias. 17:21 09 Jul 2021, updated 00:59 10 Jul 2021. "I turned it off. Is Bob Dylans Judaism blowin in the wind? Because I know that suffering is going on and I feel somehow it's unjust to be happy. She discusses her own humanity as well by outlining her blindness to her sons depression and unhappiness, and to his plan to kill. With millions of names, it's an invaluable tool for genealogist and history buffs. If Dylan had any hatred, he never told me or anyone I knew.. Except for issuing a statement last week expressing sorrow at their sons actions, the Klebolds have refused all media requests for comments or interviews. Those few mourners who camearrived by circuitous routes, to avoid drawingattention to the ceremony. Don Marxhausen believed that Dylan's parents deserved to hear the message of God's grace. Information about the funeral process. You have to be prepared to hurt when you go into the ministry. You can always change this later in your Account settings. Good things turn bad, bad things become good. 'I remember thinking everything was good,' she said. Each funeral was special in its own way, just like the person who was buried. Try again later. It was to be a private, secret affair, with a few trusted friends. Marxhausen said Thomas Klebold, 52, a geophysicist who also runs a small mortgage company, and his wife, Susan, 50, who works with disabled college students, have told him that their dead son's bizarre interests were a secret to them. Learn more about managing a memorial . Marxhausen hated the whole thing. Dylan Klebold was a child of upper-middle-class parents, considered gifted in grammar school. Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code. Anyone from any background can have mental issues, she said. Dylan Klebold and Ryan Harris killed 13 people at Columbine High School in Colorado in 1999. Dylan Bennett Klebold. He and his fellow gunman, Eric Harris, committed suicide at the end of their shooting spree. Please try again later. The next morning, my disbelief and sadness turned to horror as I saw the name "Dylan Klebold flash across my television screen. Long-time friends arrived; one couple was from my church. On April 20, 1999, I watched the television in disbelief as the tragic events unfolded at Columbine High School. In youth-group meetings, kids mourned that they could not be in heaven with her, says Craig Nason, who was a friend of Cassie's and is now the West Bowles young-adult pastor. "I learned how fear can take hold of a community. "I wished for my son to kill himself, and he did," Susan Klebold said. Write a brief biography of the deceased and present it to the world. While hundreds of mourners crowded today's televised funeral for 17-year-old Rachel Scott, a victim of the attack, Klebold's low-key service at a mortuary 20 miles northeast of Littleton was. 'Because you think, "how can I possibly feel happy when this terrible thing has happened? "Franklin Graham was beating me up through my TV," he says. No. He is buried in an unmarked grave in Virginia. 9-11-1981 -- 17 year old son of Mr. Thomas Klebold (then 52) and Mrs. Susan (Yassenoff) Klebold (then 50), younger brother to Byron (21 at the time). Princess Anne dons a vibrant brocade coat and cobalt blue fascinator as she attends Ladies Day at Newmarket. Upon arrival at the funeral home I met Tom Klebold and his other son Byron. The expression on Dylan's face was unfamiliar, which Byron later confessed made it easier for him. Previously sponsored memorials or famous memorials will not have this option. She approached a rabbi who didnt teach black and white thinking to discuss the afterlife, and he told her he believed in another chapter after death. One toted a sign that read, Do not bury him on U.S. soil. A driver passing by shouted, Throw him off a boat like Osama bin Laden.. Dylan B Klebold was born in unknown place. It was all very normal. Looking back, Klebold realizes Dylans behavior might have suggested a larger problem. It profiles Sue Klebold, Dylan Klebold's mother, and examines what lessons Americans should take away from the tragedy. This decision has haunted him ever since. She hasnt practiced since she left her childhood home. So to have the entire credibility of it washed away, that hurt.". All photos appear on this tab and here you can update the sort order of photos on memorials you manage. Cemetaries are often reluctant to accept the burial of a mass killer, fearing an outcry, and once a burial sites found, it frequently must be kept secret. ", "Instead of 'Absalom,'" Marxhausen said, "I substituted 'Dylan.'". He killed himself in his Anchorage, Alaska, jail cell after confessing to murdering eight people. ___"They thought they had been good parents," Don Marxhausen added. Pin. "She said yes with her life. Dylan Bennet Klebold. While the myth that they had been bullied and ostracized by the proverbial jocks and popular kids quickly filled the airwaves, that was an entirely unfounded narrative. George Kirsten was in Israel on the day of the shootings; immediately, he turned around to come home. But, he added, Im dealing with logistics. For the families of those who did the killing, burialis solitary, imbuedwith horror, shameand fear. Sysoon also contains listings for thousands of celebrity graves, making it the premier online destination for tombstone tourists. LITTLETON, Colo., April 24 The parents of Dylan Klebold, one of the teenage shooters in the Columbine High School massacre, said goodbye to their dead son today at a private memorial service, joined by 11 other mourners and a minister who later described the Klebold family as being "in terrible shape.". What kind of a horrible person am I to feel joy?" She tried to instill them in him as far back, in some instances, as his early childhood, but they never really got through to him. Resend Activation Email. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. That wasnt the young man Susan Klebold raised. He also shot his mother before he carried out the school rampage. The body of Leon Czolgosz, who shot and killedPresident William McKinley, was doused in sulfuric acid until it disintegrated. Please check your email and click on the link to activate your account. You have chosen this person to be their own family member. The search has turned up remnants of at least 13 of the men responsible, according to the New York Times. I wouldnt consider him to be Jewish in any way or form, Rabbi Zwerin said of Dylan Klebold. After Dylan's funeral, he described the killer's parents as "the loneliest people on the planet" to The Denver Post. He was one of the teens behind the Columbine High School Massacre in 1999. She also fell into the preachers arms and cried,she had lost her baby and all that ran through her head is that she hadnt been a good mother. Funerals, if they are even held, are expedited affairs. We are burying a dead body. Tamerlan Tsarnaev and his brother Dzhokhar killed three people after they planted bombs at the finish line of the 2013 Boston Marathon. Still, he concedes, he left when his church needed him most. Sue Klebold thought her message had gotten through. Tom is a geophysicist, Sue works with handicapped people. As a mother, she sometimes recited the Ten Commandments as a moral code, and at other times, she recited, Now I lay me down to sleep before bedtime, along with other prayers. We will remember him forever. Marxhausens role later lost him his job, but he told the Associated Press in 2012 thathe didntregret it. According to the Dispatch, Susan may have moved from the Columbus area in the 1970s. I said, Lets just sit and talk for a while. For a half-century barely anyone knew that Booth was buried there,which likely didnt do much to tamp down the century and a half of speculation that Booth was never really captured. My fav. It took the mother six months to fully acknowledge the extent of her son's crimes, with police having to show Sue evidence that proved the massacre was premeditated. See our full guidelines for more information, and this guide for detail about canonical URLs. Of course I wish these horrible things never happened, but certainly I'm grateful I've reached a place where life is okay and there's plenty to be thankful for. To view a photo in more detail or edit captions for photos you added, click the photo to open the photo viewer. The pastor of that church, Rev. This memorial website was created in memory of Dylan B Klebold, 17, born on September 11, 1981 and passed away on April 20, 1999. memorial page for Dylan Bennet Klebold (11 Sep 1981-20 Apr 1999), Find a Grave Memorial ID 10972; Cremated, Ashes given to family or . The quiet group huddled around an open California grave Tuesday, flanked by armed FBI agents. ", Marxhausen said the Klebolds have remained in seclusion because they fear "all the anger and scapegoating and blame-pointing.". Yet the Rev. The slain innocents, appropriately, are interred with honor, tears and candlelight ceremonies. Britta Lokting is the Forwards culture fellow. Please use Chrome, Safari, Firefox, or Edge to view this site. But in 14 years, none have been claimed, and they remain inthe custody of the FBI and New York medical examiners office. But they wanted some kind of service for their son,sothey phoned Don Marxhausen, a liberal-minded Lutheran pastor from their town. Your Scrapbook is currently empty. In his sermon, Marxhausen spoke of God's love. U.S., Social Security Death Index, 1935-2014. Review. She still lost her baby. Flowers added to the memorial appear on the bottom of the memorial or here on the Flowers tab. His is one of severalinfamous names thatcant be found in cemeteries, either because families have workedto hide them or becausethere is nothing to marktheirfinal resting place: Adam Lanza, who killed 26 people, including 20 first-graders, in the attack on Sandy Hook Elementary in Newtown, Conn., in 2012; Seung-Hui Cho, who killed 32 people at Virginia Tech;Timothy McVeigh, the Oklahoma City bomber who was executed in 2001, are all hidden. Ten years later, these two men of Godradically different in personality and theological approachare still struggling to deal with the damage done to them by two boys bent on murder and mayhem. Cassie Bernall, a Columbine junior, had been shot in cold blood as she crouched under a library table, and word was that in her final seconds she answered her murderer's question and affirmed her belief in God. A family lawyer came. This decision has haunted him ever since. Remove advertising from a memorial by sponsoring it for just $5. . In his sermon, Marxhausen spoke of Gods love. Klebold said her son didnt identify with being Jewish. Friends and family pass by Columbine High School student Isaiah Shoels' open casket before his funeral in Denver, Thursday, April 29, 1999. It was Saturday, four days after the shootings. We have set your language to On the Sunday between Dylans funeral and Cassies, 70,000 mourners gathered in a parking lot to listen to Franklin Graham, among others, proclaim the gospel. I personally have a hard time grieving the loss of Dylan Klebold, because it's hard to look past how vicious and sadistic he was. Real-time updates and all local stories you want right in the palm of your hand. Monarch is radiant in blue on a tour of the Coronation Street set in Manchester - and chats to stars Bill Roache, Barbara Knox and Helen Worth who were ALL there on her last visit in 1982, Minimalist Queen! This flower has been reported and will not be visible while under review. As he preached, Marxhausen could see Dylan, laid out before him in an open coffin. Learn more about merges. He admired Hitler, yet his great-great grandfather was a respected Jewish philanthropist in Ohio. While hundreds of mourners crowded today's televised funeral for 17-year-old Rachel Scott, a victim of the attack, Klebold's low-key service at a mortuary 20 miles northeast of Littleton was attended by his parents, his older brother and 10 others, Marxhausen said. There was an error deleting this problem. At one point in the book, he objects, out of embarrassment, to reciting the four questions at a Seder. Im Jewish., Similarly, Susan Klebolds cousin, Skip Yassenoff, indicated to the Denver Post last week that Dylan Klebolds act must have been very difficult for [Susan], for any average American parent but particularly for someone brought up Jewish.. Also known as an outstanding football player for the Ohio State Buckeyes in his youth, Yassenoff had such lasting influence in Columbus that the citys Jewish community center still bears his name. Sunday attendance has declined from 2,000 in 1999 to about 1,100 today. His long, skinny body fit awkwardly into the cardboard casket where it would lie until cremation. "The parents should have been aware of it," Jefferson County Sheriff John P. Stone declared at a news briefing. GREAT NEWS! I do understand no one wants to associate their names with such evil events, Tsarni told public radio station WBUR. Klebold, along with classmate Eric Harris, killed 12 fellow students and one teacher on April 20 before they committed suicide. I smoothed Dylan's hair and kissed his forehead, searching his face for clues and finding none. Please email us at [emailprotected], subject line republish, with any questions or to let us know what stories youre picking up. This monster, she told her hairdresser, Dee Grant, tears coming down her cheeks, was not the son I knew.. He admired Hitler, yet his great-great grandfather was a respected Jewish philanthropist in Ohio. On the front lines, though, Littleton's pastors did not have the luxury of interpretation. He was asked to start a nondenominational evangelical church in the 1980s, just as the megachurch movement was beginning to take off. "God, who knows about suffering and pain and loss, wants to reach out to you," he told the grieving parents, according to news accounts. At today's memorial service, he said, "I listened for 45 minutes to people talk about Dylan, and I listened to [the parents'] own self-evaluation of how they thought they were raising him. Would I do a funeral for his son? Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. cemeteries found within kilometers of your location will be saved to your photo volunteer list. Klebold says that she used to believe God was watching over her family. Klebold and Eric Harris opened fire at their high school, killing 13 people and injuring a further 24 in the attack, with Sue dismissing her son's sullen moods for teen anguish while he quietly plotted the deaths. They were fascinated by violent computer games, by bombs and guns, death and gore, and by the lurid imagery of Nazi Germany. 205 As manager of this memorial you can add or update the memorial using the Edit button below. For yearsafterward, forensics experts have toiled in the wreckage of the World Trade Center, the Pentagon and the field in Pennsylvania, hoping to salvage and identify the remains of those killed. This is anunseen aftermath of terror attacks and mass shootings. "Cassie Bernall deserved to have a book written about her, but if there was reason to believe that it wasn't truthful, then it's a disservice to her memory and to the community. ", "Our sadness and grief over his death and this tragedy are indescribable," the statement said, and the Klebolds again apologized "to all those who have also suffered a loss of their loved one, and we continue to pray for the recovery of those who were injured. After Columbine, local evangelicalswho said the shootings were the devil's work and who used the tragedy as an opportunity to bring people to Jesusinfuriated him. To republish, copy the HTML by clicking on the yellow button to the right; it includes our tracking pixel, all paragraph styles and hyperlinks, the author byline and credit to the Forward. Click on the address to view a map. I thought, Dylan would not say anything like that. He agreed. Military records of Dylan B Klebold at Fold3.com, a free resource for finding the final resting places, listings for thousands of celebrity graves. Sometimes graves are not marked for the opposite reason: Authorities fear they might become a place of worship. or don't show this againI am good at figuring things out. Try again later. With millions of names, it's an invaluable tool for genealogists and history buffs. Now theres even more undeniable proof that he was cremated. Police have identified neo-Nazism and a fascination with Adolf Hitler as among several hate-oriented themes that influenced the pair. Heres what is, Amid controversy, Biden administration shortens visit by Cuban Border Guard officials. You do your job, he said. Another girl, sitting under another library table, had said she believed in God when prompted by Klebold, who let her live, according to Dave Cullen's new book "Columbine." She told me she remembered Foster suffering a backlash after saying Kaddish for her son, but Foster doesnt remember that. There were fewer mourners than there might have been, Reutersreported many who knew the dead refused to attend. bold and Eric Harris killed 13 people at Columbine High School on April 20, 1999. Chaplain, Adams County Jail, Colorado. Try again later. Marxhausen now lives south of Littleton in Highlands Ranch with his wife, and he ministers to a tiny, rural congregation in mountainous Idaho Springs. I think school shootings bring up good and evil, and people turn to religion because its the ultimate disruption of a moral code, said Solomon. The pair killed themselves at the end of their rampage. Both were seniors at the Littleton high school, apparently members of a shadowy clique known as the Trenchcoat Mafia. He was too late, however, to be useful as a mediator. ", The two couples, declining to speak publicly, have issued statements expressing sorrow for the school attack and asking to be left alone by reporters. Sorry! For memorials with more than one photo, additional photos will appear here or on the photos tab. based on information from your browser. Family members linked to this person will appear here. After the shooting, Sue considered leaving her hometown, but decided against it so she could stay close to her support network of friends and neigbours who have stuck by her side. Here's details; After a 3rd brief shooting duel with the cops, Harris sat down, with his back against the bookshelf, he placed the grip of his shotgun between his legs, the barrel was in his mouth, leaned upwards. Are you sure that you want to delete this memorial? 'They had got so much information wrong about Dylan and our family, that I settled into the belief system that they were wrong about what Dylan did.'. Since the tragedy at Columbine High, Susan Klebold has given several indications, indirectly to local media, that she considers herself a Jew. Depending on the calendar, the family fused Passover and Easter into one dinner. Littleton was ground zero for the kind of white, evangelical Christianity that was sweeping the country at the time. Image by Courtesy of the Klebold Family. If you have questions, please contact [emailprotected]. Please, Login or Sign-up to post your comments. Consider uploading your photo of Dylan B Klebold so that your pictures are included in Dylan B Klebold's genealogy, family trees & family history records. 'Not only killed and hurt people, but that they would say awful racist things and sadistic things and I just shut that out of my mind. They favored dark clothing, as did others in their loose and relatively tiny clique, the so-called Trenchcoat Mafia. Letizia of Spain looks chic in an all-white ensemble - and matching face mask - as she joins husband King Felipe VI at Madrid art fair, Bea's blooming! After his mother retrieved him and drove him home, she stopped him as he ran upstairs, and then sat him down on the steps. Tell them about these good people., Pastor Donald Marxhausen The funeral home and chapel where Dylan Klebold's private viewing took place in Denver,Colorado. Marxhausen probably speaks for both men when he says the toll Columbine has taken on his life is incalculable. Nothing made sense. Add to your scrapbook. Are you sure that you want to delete this photo? There's where you screwed up!' Yet the Rev. She continued, Morality, empathy, ethics these werent one-time lessons, but embedded in everything we did with our kids.. Are you sure that you want to remove this flower? Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold died from self-inflicted gunshot wounds to their heads in the library a little after noon. I dont care., The communitys belief that Dylan Klebolds upbringing played a role in his actions frightened his mother. 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